We all do a lot of talking about how we are going to perform sex, but when it comes to the moment itself, things do not often go as well as we planned. There are always things that crop up that we did not think about beforehand, such as how we actually get our partner to do it with us. There are ways and techniques to approach the situation so that it comes naturally and does not feel forced. It is all about easing your other half into the moment, rather than trying to force them into it. This should be a natural, sexy and most importantly fun experience for both of you, so here are a few tips to ensure that it goes as well as you planned.
Foreplay is very important and if you can nail this then it will make it easier to transition into sex itself. You have to set the right mood so that the pair of you can relax and be at ease in each other’s company. Maybe light some candles or watch a film, perhaps have a romantic meal beforehand. By doing these seemingly meaningless things, you create a really cool atmosphere that the two of you can revel in. It sets the scene to go further.
After this, do not try to rush into sex. Take your time, begin fondling and kissing each other rather than going straight for intercourse as this may turn your partner off. Just play and tease them and then you can slowly begin to undress each other as things get much hotter between you. By doing this you are taking things steadily and one step at a time. If there are any problems, then you can flag these up with your partner and sort them out – it is easier to solve a small problem in the bedroom than it is a big one.
Once all this has happened then things between you should be at a really horny and sexy level – you will be ready to rock and roll and get into it. But this has shown you what to do. It is not possible when you are just starting out with a new serious partner to rush into it, you have to build each other up and increase the sexual intensity between you. Do that, and everything after that will flow, and you will have the best time of your life.
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